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In a world where traditional dating apps still dominate, Feeld has carved out a unique space as the most progressive dating platform for open-minded singles and couples. Originally launched as “3nder” (a Tinder for threesomes), the app rebranded to Feeld in 2016 and has since grown into a hub for polyamory, kink exploration, and non-traditional relationships.
This 2024 review covers:
- How Feeld’s unique matching system works
- Demographics: Who actually uses Feeld?
- Key features like “Couples Profiles” and group chats
- Privacy and safety measures
- How it compares to competitors like Pure and OkCupid
How Feeld Works: A Modern Approach to Ethical Non-Monogamy
1. Profile Setup (More Options Than Any Mainstream App)
Feeld allows users to create:
- Solo profiles
- Couples profiles (where two partners share one account)
- “Incognito Mode” (hides your profile from Facebook friends)
Unique feature: You can list your…
- Sexual preferences (BDSM, poly, etc.)
- Emotional availability
- Relationship structure desires
2. Matching System
Unlike swipe-heavy apps, Feeld uses:
- “Desires” (tags that help match based on kinks)
- “Connections” instead of matches (emphasizing ongoing chats)
- Group chat creation for potential threesomes/foursomes
Pros & Cons: Is Feeld Worth It?
✅ Pros
✔ Most LGBTQ+ friendly app (more options than Tinder or Hinge)
✔ No judgment culture (profiles list kinks openly)
✔ Best app for couples (dedicated couple profiles)
✔ Active, engaged user base (less ghosting than mainstream apps)
❌ Cons
✖ Smaller user base outside major cities
✖ Limited free features (can’t see who likes you)
✖ Occasional bugs (app can be glitchy)
Feeld vs. Competitors: How It Stacks Up
| Feature | Feeld | Pure App | OkCupid | Tinder |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| ENM-Friendly | ✅✅✅ | ✅ | ✅✅ | ❌ |
| Couples | ✅✅✅ | ❌ | ❌ | ❌ |
| User Base | 1M+ | 500K+ | 10M+ | 75M+ |
| Kink Options | 50+ tags | 5 basic | 15 | 0 |
Key Takeaways:
- Best for ethical non-monogamy: Far better than OkCupid’s limited options
- Not for everyone: If you want vanilla dating, try Hinge instead
Pricing: Is Majestic Membership Worth It?
- Free version: Limited likes, no “Desires” visibility
- Majestic ($24.99/month): See who liked you, private photos, more
Our verdict: Worth it if you’re serious about ENM dating.
Privacy & Safety
Feeld offers:
- Incognito mode
- No required social media links
- Photo verification
But… Some users report fake profiles (less than AFF though).
Final Verdict
Best for: Polyamorous folks, couples, kinksters
Avoid if: You want traditional dating
Rating: 4.5/5 (Best in class for its niche)
